Here is my top 5 picks:

1. Flow by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
2. One thing Thing
3. Atomic Habits (Recent one which has become my favourite)
4. The 4-hour workweek
5. Make & Shine by Anne-Laure Le Cunff

Deep Work by by Cal Newport has some great insights if you're looking to maximize your output per day.

• Getting Things Done: The concept of "next available action" was eye opening. Always knowing what the next task is you can work on for any given project. Also the requirement of a task starting with a verb. So instead of just "laundry" I'd say something like "select clothes to put in washing machine". Even though I know what "laundry" means, having it be more concrete helps actually doing it.
• Thinking Fast & Slow: Helps you become more aware of all the common mistakes our brain make.
• The Creative Habit and The War of Art: Both taught me you don't need "inspiration" to do creative work. With good habits and discipline you should be able to do creative work anytime.
• The Effective Executive: No-nonsense advice on how to be a more productive executive.

I read these books quite a while ago. Many of them I wouldn't enjoy today, but they worked for me in the moment. I recommend just getting the free chapter on iTunes/Amazon and if you don't enjoy it try again in a few years.

1) The Power of Habit (or Atomic Habits is apparently also good but I haven't read it)
2) Algorithms to Live By (best book I've read in a long time)
3) Man's Search for Meaning
4) Give and Take
6) The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F***

If you're interested in more books in the p-dev area, I recommend more here: stephsmith.io/books

consumersbook.net by Harry Dry (lol)

genius writing

The only one that I read & I loved it completely was

1. "Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends on It" by Kamal Ravikant

But here are some others that I've heard good things about & will read them & sure love them (because I only pick those that are worth my time) by 2020

1. "Atomic Habits" by James Clear

2. "Anything You Want" by Derek Sivers

3. "Deep Work" by Cal Newport

4. "So Good They Can't Ignore You" by Cal Newport

5. "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck" by Mark Manson

6. "Live Your Truth" by Kamal Ravikant

7. "Hooked" by Nir Eyal & Ryan Hoover

These books directly or indirectly help in Self Development :)

I see a lot of good self self-development reads above, so here are some books that have self-development in respect to interacting with others as well:

• The Elements of Mentoring: 75 Practices of Master Mentors, 3rd Edition
• I Can't Make This Up: Life Lessons by Kevin Hart (I recommend the audible version which is read by Kevin Hart!)
• Thinking Fast and Slow
• Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It
• Principles by Ray Dalio