work on making poll async messages more consistent #simplepoll

make messaging work in backend #remoteworkers

clearing more messages #fajarsiddiq

nomadchat - fix msg archives doubling

#conditioner improve error messages

to fix issues with giant messages.db, shard it and split messages db into messages in last 90 days and full messages archive db #nomads

Trigger messages splitting only once, then just block overtyping #stenograph

Add more #hellohailey messages